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Wow
I am overwhelmed.
I guess I should start with the news to those that may not know. On January 7th, my dear husband passed away at the age or 39. Heart attack. He was young, healthy, perfect and shockingly he is gone. I could write pages on the amazing person he was…..my knight in shining armor. He worked hard so I could live the dream of owning my own store. He was so proud of my many accomplishments and I know I couldn’t have done any of it without him behind me.
The reality of it all has yet to set in. I’m sure it will take some time. But I know the first big dose of reality is that I need a “real” job with a real salary that I can rely on no matter what, to support my boys. So the store has to close.
Yesterday an angel notified some wonderful bloggers who have posted the news on their blogs, sending many of you here for the first time. When the orders started pouring in, I was absolutely overwhelmed. Not with the fact that we have to *pack* that many orders, but the sheer love you’ve all shown for a complete stranger. What started as a day doing inventory, became a day of packing, packing, packing. I sent out an APB on boxes and packing peanuts via text message & help arrived.
Again, to those who have not come here via these blogs. The entire store is on sale, 25% off. Prices are not shown, the discount will be deducted from your cart.
There is so much more I want to say, but right now I will just say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for the love, support, and prayers. They are felt & appreciated.
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January 17th, 2010 at 9:47 am
Thoughts & prayers are with you & your family during this most difficult loss. May friendship continue to wrap you in comfort.
January 17th, 2010 at 9:56 am
I am inspired by your courage and my heart goes out to you!
January 17th, 2010 at 9:57 am
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones:)
January 17th, 2010 at 10:10 am
Hello dear Gina, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I heard about you through the Blondiensc blog. I know we don’t know one another and I certainly don’t expect a reply. I just wanted to send some love your way. I’ve seen your lovely shop items before and I’m happy to find them again.
I’m praying for you and I will spread the word.
Laura
January 17th, 2010 at 11:06 am
Big hugs to you and your boys, Gina…my thoughts/prayers are with you!
January 17th, 2010 at 1:00 pm
Gina,
I had to write to say I am so so sorry for your loss. I cried when I read your entry. I also have to tell you that my dad died when he was 39 of a heart attack. I was three years old. It is very painful to this day, but I wanted to let you know that not only have my brother and I survived it but we thrived. I pray for you and your family. Hang in there.
January 17th, 2010 at 1:39 pm
I am sorry for your loss- I will pray for you and your family. But I must say, your children are blessed to have such a strong mother who can attend to their needs at this time of great personal pain for herself!
January 17th, 2010 at 3:52 pm
I cannot fathom how heart broken you must be right now, but I want you to know that you are not walking this alone. I am in prayer for you and your kiddos and know that countless others are as well! Blessings.
January 17th, 2010 at 4:00 pm
Gina,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my husband July 17, 2008. He was 47 and was killed in a tragic accident. I still have 2 young children at home.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. If you ever need to vent, or just want to talk to someone who has been and is going through what you are, I am certainly here for you.
I know your heart is broken and you feel totally overwhelmed with all the responsibility. You will get through it. It is the hardest thing ever, but you can make it. Lean on the Lord, your friends and your family. Let people help you and don’t be afraid to ask for help.
You are in my heart and my prayers.
Gena
January 17th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
Oh Gina!!!!
What else can we do for you????
my prayers are with you and your family sweetheart.
xo
January 17th, 2010 at 4:05 pm
I am so sorry Gina.
I can’t even imagine what you’re going through right now. Kevin and I will keep you and your boys in our prayers.
We’ll also be blogging about your sale tonight.
Blessings,
Layla
January 17th, 2010 at 4:34 pm
I heard of your sad news from the lettered cottage’s blog. I am so sorry. On Dec. 2nd my dad surprisingly passed away from a heart attack also. He also was perfectly healthy and was actually at the dr. he day before for a standard check up and his dr. was just as surprised as us with his passing. I wish Murfreesboro, Tn is closer to you because I am sure you and my mom could be a good support for each other. I will keep you in my prayers. When you feel ready two books someone gave to us were a big help. 90 minutes in heaven and Heaven by Randy Alcorn. You only need to read the first 3 chapters in the 90 minutes in heaven and I only cared to read the first half of the heaven book (it is really big). Again, I am so sorry.
January 17th, 2010 at 4:45 pm
Gina, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.
January 17th, 2010 at 4:50 pm
I am just so sorry for your loss. It is terribly tragic that your husband is gone. My heart aches for you & your boys…keeping you in my prayers.
January 17th, 2010 at 5:14 pm
Very sorry for your loss Gina, I heard the news from The Lettered Cottage’s blog. Thoughts and Prayers for you and your boys.
Amanda x
(Australia)
January 17th, 2010 at 5:22 pm
Came over via the Inspired Room. One of my poems I especially like during trying times is “Do the Next Thing”…
http://www.achristianhome.org/Good_Things/a_poem_quoted_by_elisabeth_elliot.htm
Sounds like just what you’re doing. I will pray for you everytime I use my little Gurgle Pot.
January 17th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
i know there is nothing a total stranger can say that will really help… just know that you and your boys are being lifted up to the Lord. i pray for little comforts & joys from Him as you grieve & celebrate your husband’s life.
with love,
rachel
January 17th, 2010 at 5:51 pm
Dear Gina,
I know love is forever and life is eternal and death is nothing but a horizon. And a horizon is nothing more than the limit of our eyesight.
I hope your heart hears what words cannot say.
You and your family are in my prayers,
Deborah
January 17th, 2010 at 5:55 pm
Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. Your husband sounded like an amazing man. I am the mother of four boys, and I just lost my mother to gastric cancer this past September. The pain in your heart is beyond words, I know. At times it is hard to even breathe. I want you to know that I am on my knees as I write this, and I will be lifting you and your sweet boys up to the Lord in prayer. May He fill you with a peace that is beyond understanding. Some words that my mom said before she passed away that brought us all comfort was, “I may not understand God, but I trust Him.”
I will continue to pray for you.
Traci
January 17th, 2010 at 5:59 pm
Dear Gina and Family,
I am heartbroken for your family. I haven’t posted here on your blog but have visited the Feather Your Nest site. My thoughts and prayers are with you. And may the Lord comfort you during this loss.
January 17th, 2010 at 6:14 pm
Gina, I know that there is nothing that can be said to make your day shine brighter..but your family is in my thoughts and prayers!
May you be conforted by the Lord as you deal with the loss
xoxo,
Katie
January 17th, 2010 at 6:16 pm
I am so sorry to hear about the loss you and your family are dealing with. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Melissa
January 17th, 2010 at 6:19 pm
Thoughts & prayers are with you & your family during this most difficult loss.
January 18th, 2010 at 2:19 am
May the Lord wrap you in His arms and comfort you. I’m so sorry for your loss.
January 18th, 2010 at 6:50 am
Hi,
I lost my Dad the same way just a couple of months ago. I pray the Lord will be close to you as you handle the many things that need to get done. My encouragement is that each day is a little better, do it one at a time, don’t worry about tomorrow or how you will survive then. Soon, these sad memories will begin to fade and you will be left with wonderful times you shared together. Praying for you.
Christine
January 18th, 2010 at 9:04 am
May the Lord comfort you and give you strength during this difficult time. Praying for you and your family!
January 18th, 2010 at 9:53 am
Gina,
My heart is breaking for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine. My thoughts are prayers are with your and your family.
January 18th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
Gina,
When I read the post on The Lettered Cottage’s blog, I knew I had to pop over to your blog. My heart sank reading your post above. I can’t even imagine what you must be feeling.
I pray that the Lord will give you the peace, comfort, courage and strength you will need in the coming days, weeks and months.
I’m so glad that the orders are pouring in which will ease the burden of the inventory for you. I will pray that you find a full time salaried job doing something that you love also.
I’m going to check out your store for the first time now.
January 18th, 2010 at 5:46 pm
Gina, May the love of God surround you and enfold you wherever you are God is always there. I am praying for you and your family, I live in Georgia but if there is anything I could do now or in the future to help please e-mail me and let me know. God Bless you and you boys Susan in Georgia.
March 2nd, 2010 at 12:37 am
Dear Gina and sons,
I lost my father suddenly to a heart attack also. he was 49 and as far as we knew in perfect health. Though I cannot fathom your pain in losing your husband, I absolutely know the pain of suddenly losing a father. I read about this, and felt compelled to say something, and yet as I sit here, I can think of nothing, b/c there simply are no words. Please know that I am holding you all close to my heart. May your memories comfort you and help you at this difficult time.
March 13th, 2010 at 10:10 am
I am so very sorry for your loss. I know it must be terrible to loose your husband and the father of your children. He sounds like such a good husband. I agree with the girl who told you about the book 90 min. in heaven.It is so comforting. veronica
March 25th, 2010 at 8:17 am
Girl, the widows will be here for you whenever you’re ready. There’s a long road ahead, and you’ll feel alone, but you won’t be. We’re all done the suckage and most of us have come out the other. end.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Big giant hugs!
Supa